I think it’s important that we are all a little selfish sometimes and that we understand and are aware of toxic people in our lives.
Whether that’s so-called friends or family, you shouldn’t have to put up with it under any circumstances.
If your family members or your friends are constantly putting you down, putting a negative on your ideas/aspirations, only come to you when they want something, they don’t listen to your problems and maybe dismiss what you say; these are all signs that you need to get rid of them.
I understand family is more difficult..
But you can avoid them. You can even talk to them about the way you feel, and if they refuse to change or refuse to stop being a negative impact on your life, then they’re giving you permission to rid them out of your life.
It’s the same with your friends..
You could talk to them about the way you’re feeling and again, if they dismiss what you say then they’re giving you permission.
I think it’s important that you understand that having toxic people in your life will bring negative energy, and will drag you down.
Ease the load, get rid of those people as hard as it is, you will attract better friends, you will make friends with people who are a positive influence in your life.
People who actually care about your concerns and your worries, people who actually listen to what you’re saying and don’t judge you.
Encouraging friends, who want to see you do well and achieve better. Who know you can achieve more and help you achieve more!
How exciting does that sound?
As lonely as you may feel, being alone for a while is always better than having those toxic people in your life.
You will feel less drained and as if a weight has been lifted off your shoulders.
You owe yourself that and you deserve good, positive people in your life.
Never put up with abusive people whether it’s friends or family no matter what other people may say.
You deserve whole hearted people in your life.
Be kind to yourself, always.